I like to be hurt and basically forced during sex, just being told how I would be used and degraded gets me off. Is this okay? I would say I have a rape fantasy but that feels so wrong.

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  2. This is a lot more common than people realize. As long as the act is consensual and communicated you should be fine. Just be mindful that due to the nature of this fantasy, it can go awry really fast if you do not have a good partner.

  3. Of course it’s okay. And I promise you, much more common than anybody would like to admit.

    What you’re fantasising about is something you consent to. (Not to say you consent to being raped) Lots of people like being ‘used’ or acting as a slave. As somebody else said, you just have to be certain you are doing it with someone you trust. Set boundaries. Let them know what they can/can’t do. Always have a safe word.

    It feels wrong because rape is wrong. But giving into someone, being submissive, letting them use you to pleasure themselves however they want… that’s a kink for many people.

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