He says you’re only for a text and some sex here and there when Im bored you’ll never be more!!!!! He said it jokingly but also his actions say that as well!!! He focuses on sharing the bills more than ANYTHING in the connection!!! Its scary even tho at times it feels like there’s some chemistry

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  1. The fact someone would even be ok with saying this to their partner even as a joke should be setting off alarm bells in your head.

  2. What’s the question here lol? It’s definitely hella weird…but at least he’s letting you know whats up, so if you stay, don’t blame anyone else but yourself.

  3. Love bombed and used for sex and texts….why do people stay in relationships like this, have some self respect. He is using you & you’re allowing it.

  4. This is not the kind of poetry you want…. He’s using you for sex and killing boredom, if this ain’t the same for you then ditch him ASAP imo.

  5. at times I really wish I was this kind of guy. Starting to think it’s better to be a complete asshole who treats women like shit but gets a ton of sex rather than trying to be good to people and get a girl who just likes me and makes me happy. Cos it damn well ain’t working.

  6. What are you asking here? Listen to him. If he’s both telling you that and showing you through his actions then that’s how he feels about you and it’s not going to magically change. If you want to demean yourself by accepting it, that’s your choice. If you want to have self respect and opt out of a shitty situation then that’s going to be better in the long run. Don’t be stupid and let “chemistry” fool you.

  7. “You slept with Cheryl too?”

    -“Yeah but when I was bored. Like stuck at home waiting for the cable guy”.

  8. There is no chemistry there. If a person tells you who they are, believe them. If you are happy being a booty call, then go for it. Otherwise cut the line and move on to what you really want

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