i am chatting w/ an girl that is very very freaky, older than me and more experienced. we already hanged out once and she told me trough messages that she wants to have hardcore sex with me (slapping, grabbing, throwing around)
So, i only had regular boring sex in my life, can you help me in steps what to involve and what to do from beginning to the end that she would really like?
I want to impress her
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Tell her you’re inexperienced but you’re willing to try anything.
If ur lucky, she’ll speak up when she wants u to do something (ie: “choke me”, “pull my hair”, etc). Otherwise, it just sounds like she’d want u to he dominant
i know the type, they want to be roughed up a little. how much depends on her
just be intentional about how you move her around, she’ll want you to take the lead. pound it all the way in once she’s wet. have a firm grip on her when you’re doing it
The neck and upper arms are good hold points when you do her
T A L K . T O . Y O U R . P A R T N E R .
I swear, this is the answer to the vast majority of posts on this sub. Just tell her that you’re delighted to spice things up, but want to make sure you’re doing it right. Ask what, where, how hard, “you like that?” etc. Establish a safe word. Respect it.
In short, we don’t know what she likes. She does. Ask her.