Hey guys, so I (24M) have been dating this girl (23F) for maybe 2 months (even tho 1 of them just sexually) and I want to make her cum during PIV.
My ex gf used to cum so easily in any kind of way.
I’m not comparing, I just want to make her feel good in every orgasm and please her. I know that many girls can’t cum during PIV, so I’m just asking for some advices in case that someone has struggled with this and managed to cum during PIV.
Besides she’ve told me that she has never cum this way. I always make her cum by fingering her or eating her. So just looking for some advices, maybe some positions, techniques or sum else.
Btw we do foreplay, she wet’s a lot.
The only times that I’ve been near to make her cum is either doggy style or smacking her hard when she’s on top of me, but she starts shaking and eventually my dick comes out.
I already asked her how can I make her feel mor confortable but she says everything is good so far, but I want advices on people that have been go through this.
Thanks!
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If she doesn’t say its something she explicitly wants you to do be able to do then its not that big of a deal to try. As long as she still cums other ways its not a problem.
That said, you can incorporate a clit vibrator or vibrating cock ring that usually helps a lot. You just need to accept less of a thrusting point to sex, and just be happy to stay still and ride the waves of her orgasm when it happens. If you keep thrusting too much or too hard its just gonna get in the way, ie move the vibrator or push your dick out which isn’t the point.
If it doesnt happen though, it doesnt happen. It doesnt need to happen. Just have fun.
Use a vibrator on her clit while you are fucking. Her orgasm will be amazing.
Some women simply can’t. You have to accept that.
You can try other positions – prone bone works for some women due to g spot stim. If she’s athletic, try having her bend over to touch her toes, then take her from behind – this one can also do major g spot stim and be super powerful.
If you are athletic, try froggy style – like doggy, but with your legs outside of hers, more of an up and down. Common theme here, it gets the g spot.
Best bet? Have her rub her clit, you rub her clit, somebody uses a vibrator.
The fact that she can’t come with your penis along is not an indictment of your manhood. It’s just biology.
I personally use a vibrator during PIV. I suggest one with different power settings bc sometimes the sensation of the vibrator is lost during all of that movement. I recommend wand toys bc it’s also easier to hold on to while getting nasty.
Nearly all women can orgasm during sex if you just add clitoral stimulation at the same time. In fact clitoral stimulation combined with vaginal penetration at the same time is the most effective way for most women to reach orgasm most of the time.
Have her try using a vibrator on her clit during sex and she will very likely orgasm.