Hi all. I (19f) started university a couple of months ago and I don’t feel like I have any friends yet. I managed to meet a couple of people I could hold a decent conversation with through tagging along with my flatmates to parties/joining societies but I sometimes don’t understand the ‘rules’ of socialising (I’m mildly autistic). I never know how to take a good conversation much further, like am I meant to ask them to meet up for a coffee or something? There was this one guy I met at a party ages ago and liked who came up to me the other week he came up to me and started talking with me which was nice but we went our separate ways after that and idk if I should try and start another conversation with him. I also met a nice girl at the drama society and we talked quite a bit and she even got me a box of chocolates for my birthday! But I haven’t spoken to her in a month because I am scared that people will think I’m weird if I just randomly talk to them. I really don’t know what to do, at some point we have to organise our housing for next year and I don’t think I have anyone to share with. Please help lol.
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