Hiya, I’m looking for some input as to how someone else would feel in this situation. There’s someone I’m like really into, but I got out of a long term relationship about a month or so ago. I can’t stop thinking about this crush though, and I know he’s probably interested in me by the way he flirts with me and talks to me. I’ve got a total soft spot.
My predicament, is that I don’t feel like I’m in a place where I SHOULD be in a relationship right now in the moment, and going in with this guy makes me nervous because I’m a little afraid it hasn’t been long enough since my last relationship ended. I don’t want to hurt him but I want him to be mine in the cheesiest way possible. He’s someone I feel like I could actually have a future with, and in terms of dating someone new he’s already checked most of the boxes of things I’m looking for in a person.
Should I tell him how I feel, and explain my predicament? I can’t ask him to wait around for me but I’m also so afraid that in the time I’m taking to be alone he’s gonna find someone else. Help!