When does the awkwardness of sex go away for you?

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1. My first 0-10 times were varying levels of awkward, and then it got better.

   Sometimes a new partner or a bad partner can make it awkward again even now far into my journey.

   Sex isn’t *always* awkward but awkwardness can absolutely hold hands with sex. They’re not synonymous but it happens.

   If you feel awkward, try your best to own it rather than be beat down by it. It just happens, and it’s sexy and fun when a partner can acknowledge that without it becoming a bigger issue.

2. Hmm i never rlly felt awkward during sex. Maybe go slower and drag out foreplay for as long as u can. I’ve had awkward moments but those aren’t really memorable. They’re funny to remember but don’t rlly leave a lasting effect.

3. When you’ve made her cum a few times (with oral), when you can find her clit or her vaginal opening with your hand without looking, when you can find her vagina with your cock without looking.

   This ends the fumbling around and the nerves about maybe not being good.

4. It comes with experience. Not necessarily more partners. I can only think of two or three awkward encounters and all were lacking something.

   The main thing is you’re comfortable with your partner. Chemistry is fundamental. As is confidence.

   You need to be able to laugh when things go wrong.