Yesterday he brought a lollipop so we could make out and lick it at the same time. It was sweet and I enjoyed it, but now he wants to go down on me with the lollipop and insert it inside me as well. That’s a big step up from just kissing with it.

Im not an expert but i think that could result in problems with the ph of the vagina, right?
How much of a big deal is it? Would it be fine to just do it and then wash up? He really wants to try it and as long as i know it’s safe, im open to it

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  1. Please don’t do this, it’s not safe for your vaginal health, and could lead to some uncomfortable and potentially dangerous infections. Congratulations on having a partner you feel safe exploring with! Good luck, stay safe, have fun!

  2. A stripper was at a bachelor party I was at was selling suckers for a bucks a piece. You could use them on her then lick them when you were done. Bad idea though… pass on that one.

  3. Absolutely do not do this. No sex is worth getting a yeast infection or other vaginal infection for.

  4. Do NOT try unless you want an infection.
    Even dirty fingernails or someone who hasn’t washed their hands before sex could give you an infection if they insert into you.

    I would recommend doing some research together with your bf on what is or isn’t healthy/safe.

  5. Biologist here. Don’t EVER put any food inside your vagina, specially If it’s rich in sugar. It can cause many issues, including:

    1- Severe pH imbalance;

    2- Infections;

    3- Deregulation of the vaginal microbiota (which can be long-lasting depending on severity);

    4- Internal injuries.

    Foodplay isn’t necessarily bad for your health, but make sure to keep It all on the outside. If for some reason you desperately need a lollipop inside you, then do It anally. It’s much less damaging.

  6. Girls sell these, they’re called pussy pops. Most of those girls either end up with an infection or just put their juices on the pops with their fingers lol.

  7. No. You’re not supposed to clean your vagina in the first place so cleaning it out after putting sugar in it is in no way a smart solution to the already stupid idea.

  8. Tell him not to do that, it might not be good for your vagina’s health. If he wants to eat you out because of the taste and smell of the lollipop, tell him to buy fruit based lubricants instead (highly recommend)

  9. No sugar in the vagina. Yeast feeds on sugar and you’ll end up with an explosion of your natural flora. Welcome to yeast city.

  10. for the love of God, don’t do this ha ha. About 30 years ago my girlfriend and I got one of those big thick candy sticks they used to sell at Disneyland. We were both into the idea and then once we started, we quickly found out it was a disaster, it was a sticky mess more irritating than interesting to both of us and she got a yeast infection afterwards. I felt so bad we were both so dumb ha ha but we had a lot of fun.

  11. From the man’s side, from experience … nothing with food involved EVER turns out as sexy as it sounds.

  12. Definitley don’t do this, sugar will very likely cause a yeast infection and in general be bad for your vaginal health. the ph level down there is a very delicate balance

  13. NO NO NO SUGAR!! You will regret this. Never use anything with sugar or anything with sweetener during sex.

  14. Don’t even get close. No sugar in the vaginal area. It will cause an infection and you’ll have to deal with a hell of an annoying time.

  15. Exactly, sugar is absolutely the worst. In fact make sure to go to the bathroom before sex and after sex. Make your boyfriend brush his teeth and use strong mouth was then rinse with water. My husband loves to eat me out and does it daily we learned this quick. It wouldn’t hurt to eat yogurt a few times a week or take a probiotic.

  16. My wife had the idea to play with a popsicle once. Note it was once. I don’t know the details of the aftermath, as it was early in our relationship and we didn’t talk about “gross” stuff by that point, but she has made it clear that it can’t ever happen again. So I would advise against it.

    With that said just in general, toys are a lot of fun. So maybe you two could go shopping for a new body safe toy and make a night out of breaking it in. Don’t forget the water based lube.

  17. Absolutely not.

    Boyfriend should know way more about vaginas!!
    Don’t let him push you into this

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