I’m not arrogant, think big of myself or up myself in anyway shape or form as a disclaimer from the outset.
I’ve been told I’m handsome a bit throughout my life, and looking back in my mid 30s now, I got a lot of attention from females now that I self reflect.
My question is, now later in life, I thought it was my low self esteem, self worth or thinking I’d become unattractive later in life. But someone pointed out to me women can hold grudges or hate attractive men. I don’t exactly know why, if it’s true it could explain much about my experiences.can this be the case, if so why?
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I mean, yeah, sure. For the same reason a guy might be an asshole to a hot woman–feeling rejected, feeling like she’s looking down on him, feeling like she’s been mean to him or that women who look like her have been mean to him in the past.
In general, though, people are nicer to hot people.
Idunno, you tell me: why do people hate Jared Leto so much? He’s a good-looking guy.
Some women and some men will hate you. Some will hate that you hold sway over them, and that they need or desire what you have. Which is pathetic.
Yeaa, its the same for people who are built men where women with a bad past(which most are) tend to assume most attractive or built men are jerks or smn.
Atleast thats what i think
There are nice people and shitty people. How about we all just stop hating/discrediting anyone.
Just man haters bud. I’m in the same bracket was tied down till now premie on the gray temple an I’m 36 M just man i have 20 somethings comin at me 30somthings I don’t get it. But I’m takin it
Hotness can be negated by being an asshole, or just being generally uninteresting.
I’ve never heard of this. I definitely never disliked someone, just because they’re good looking. I only have ever disliked anyone based on their ugly personality.
Never take the words of a woman literally. Cause she will say things for various reasons. For example like saying things to try trigger you in losing your cool. If you don’t lose your cool and amplify the thing she just accuses you of by making it sound totally ridiculous you’ll be earning points with her.
The hotter you become the more of these so called shit tests will be thrown at you.