I(24M) am seeing a lady(24F) almost more than a year. I have never felt love in my heart before her. We don’t ever talk so much because I am just ignoring her but all of her perspective say she also into me .
I (24m) have just no any feminine (sister or any female friend) whom I can ask or know about this. I have anxiety about this more than 1.5 years .so please don’t make fun. I have known women some times women can’t orgasm and 10% women don’t orgasm at all .pressure makes it bad , what if I can’t make her orgasm ?Because media says you are a bullshit if I can’t make my spouse orgasm. *I want to be a better spouse for every aspect of her life.* I know communication is the only key. And I will obviously do that. **But my questions are**
1. men once get stimulate they definitely orgasm ,because without that they can’t stop ,when women can’t reach there(I know that can be for many reasons) they don’t feel need to touch clit that like man do ?
2. how can a women satisfied on these time?
3. when women sexual urge gone or sexually satisfied?
4. men need sex until arousal gone.is arousal and horniness isn’t same thing for women?
obviously it will be her right get satisfaction from me.
please know me because I don’t concentrate my university study .Falling love really a bad thing .I am just broken about this Almost every night I am alone I think about her and cry about this because I may be right choice for her because I maybe can’t give her physical right .I AM JUST PHYCHOLOGICLY BROKEN FOR MORE THAN 1.5 YEARS .Sometimes I think I shouldn’t destroy her life. But I can control my emotion when I call her for some reason she just come to me instantly with her curious eyes like something she wants listen from me. Bu I am such a stupid.
Tldr: what should I do about my anxiety about female arousal and orgasm because as a male body I don’t know how female body work. Sometime I think I should make her my wife(she is so much care about me I see ) may be I should ignore her for her better.
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It’s a learning process. Every woman is slightly different. Ask questions about how she feels along the way. If you are generous and kind most of the time she will want to try again. The more you learn about each other the more you will be able to please her. Don’t expect to know everything right away. It’s more important to be willing to make changes each time.