I’m super conscious of what I look like during sex and my orgasm face probably looks like I’m in pain/about to cry or just stupid. Haven’t had sex in a while but it’s an insecurity, so yeah, the title basically

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  1. It’s quite important to me that she orgasms. But I don’t recall ever intentionally looking for her facial reaction. If you conscious about it maybe try doggie ? You bending away from him may make you abit more comfortable

  2. I love making my partners cum, it’s a great sense of satisfaction knowing that I can and i know we have a great time if we both cum

  3. I love watching faces during it all, yes sometimes the faces are unsightly, but that’s just because of what I’m doing to them. So it’s still a turn on. As for orgasms I want to make sure they get out of it what I am getting out of it.

  5. Very important for everyone to be pleased. Watching the effects of an orgasm is rather enjoyable and should be celebrated. If you worry less about what you look like you’ll feel better, enjoy it more and probably actually look really phenomenal while doing it!

  6. Re: Title: Her orgasm is pretty important and yes, of course, it’s one of the hottest things about her orgasm.

    Unless someone has actually stopped sex after seeing your O face because they thought you were in pain, you probably just need to stop overthinking.

  8. I think I’m in the extreme case. I don’t see what’s different from masturbation if I am not feeling what she feels and want to make her feel better. I realize that can always seem like an exaggeration but I think I have some damage to my brain in the part of mirror neurons making them hyper-sensitive and what some call “empath”.

    It’s a very extreme type of brain damage like I’m overwhelmed by people’s “emotions” all the time (communicated probably to me in hypersensitive ways through the most nuanced body language) and I have lots of difficulty coping with the flood of emotions from other people and constantly get called “psychic” even though I’m not and don’t believe such things.

    But to summarize it might be all that matters to me is that I don’t have so many feelings of my own. I feel through other people. If the girl in my bed is not happy, I am not happy. I sorta feel what she feels.

  9. It’s literally the most important aspect of sex to me (ok, occasionally I can be pretty selfish, but sometimes a brats gonna brat).
    I LOVE the faces she makes when she is close to orgasm and then the ones she makes when she goes over the edge drive me crazy.

  10. I love to see her face get all worked up and the release after the tension is beautiful. Sex is about letting go. Tell your partner to help you get out of your head and how to do that. Or if you don’t know ask them to help you figure it out. That is what sex is about. Good sex. Forgetting everything and just existing for a while.

  11. Not very important for her to orgasm. I’d absolutely give it a solid attempt; but, sometimes it just doesn’t happen. Won’t hurt my feelings if it doesn’t. Certainly be happy if she did.

    Considering my favorite position is having my face buried between her thighs, I’m checking for other feedback than facial expressions.

    EDIT: XD Wonder if these downvoters realize they are the reason why so many women feel pressured to fake orgasms. Personally, I’d rather she tell me it isn’t going to happen and give me feedback on how to improve.

  12. Well that depends. Does she often orgasm during intercourse? If she is not one to cum that way…well that’s fine. Obviously we all like to think as a partner that we can bring pleasure of orgasm to our partners…but sometimes it’s just not in the cards. I’ve had a few partners who just can’t find the way to cum during intercourse. That is fine. We adjust. She cums through oral or anal or foreplay. One partner I had never came at all…we tried…with toys and fingers and everything else. But she just never could. And that is ok! She still hasn’t to this day. She still enjoys sex with her partner..and reports that she enjoyed it with me a long long time ago. But her goal is pleasure and not orgasm.

    And as for seeing your face when you or if you cum..I think its hot. One partner hated to be seen when vulnerable..so she liked doggy. No prob.

  13. I watch her. She cums and orgasms multiple times. She’s so beautiful and I love watching her. It’s a tremendous turn on. She moans and it makes me moan.

  14. I guess that depends on the person but I think both guys and girls should want the other person to orgasm as well… and seeing their faces is hot! When a guy is ontop seeing his facial expression cumming brings me pleasure!!

  16. I absolutely love making my OH orgasm. It wouldn’t bother me if I didn’t, for me it’s all about giving.

  17. It’s important to me yes, whatever form the orgasms take. I’m not going to force it sure but it’s very enjoyable to see obvious pleasure, her happiness is my happiness. As for facial expressions, I’ve never been with a woman I didn’t think looked beautiful during an orgasm. I really wouldn’t worry about that.

  18. Making my ex-gf (21,F) orgasm was extremely important to me. Looking at her face was a big turn on for me (especially when she moaned and when she orgasmed) and it is why I preferred positions that let me look at her face.

  19. Love watching her o face. Her orgasm is extremely important. If I just wanted to get mine I could jerk off.

  21. It is paramount that I give my wife as many orgasms as I think she’s capable of taking, and I’ve always and still love her face, even after 35 years of marriage.

  23. I love making my sex partner orgasm.
    I also am very competitive in it, I want to make her orgasm within less times I saw her than other guys.

  25. Absolutely do not worry how your face looks! We may think we look silly, but I can assure you to anyone else they’ll think it’s the sexiest thing. ❤️

  26. Its more important that she orgasms than I do. Not always like that but 8/10 times its more important she gets there. I love the faces and sounds. If ive been really getting her going she’ll have full body shakes 😤

  29. Sometimes it is very important. Sometimes,not. Situations vary.
    There is lovemaking, there are quickies, there are times when one of you needs orgasm, the other doesn’t. But if I sense she wants orgasm. I do my best.

  31. I’m lucky, my wife orgasms from my pretty much doing anything sexual to her, and a few non-sexual things too, and I love watching her cum, cutest little smiles and grins followed by her big-O face

  33. I know a guy who just likes to stare into women’s eyes during sex because it really turns them on. That and for some reason likes to hug them as both parties cum.

  34. While I’m not a man I do have sex with women.

    Her orgasm is more important than mine. I can have an orgasm any time I like, the exciting part of sex for me is her. Her pleasure, her sounds, her scent, her body…all of it. Watching her whole body is a turn on.

    As long as the pleasure is real, it’s wonderful and *how* you look doesn’t matter.

  35. It’s the biggest turn on to me, and super important. I dated a girl for a while in the past that was super quiet even when she came, and to be honest, I hated it.

  36. I do my best to make sure she gets hers and, while it is important, I don’t get upset if it doesn’t happen. There’s too many factors that can mess it up just on my (40m) side that I have to keep realistic expectations lol.

    So far as watching her face goes, absolutely! I love to see the fruits of my labor!

  37. She can twist her face any way she likes, as long as it doesn’t look like she is worried about how she looks.

    Orgasm is the moment of liberation, all inhibitions screwed. If you are still worried, body may be shaking all the way, but emotionally you haven’t had it.

  38. Hearing, watching, or both preferably, are very important to me. And yes the face and eyes show a lot of how a person is feeling so it can be a turn on to see how her face is reacting knowing how she is feeling. Plus it’s good feedback to know that I’m not doing something wrong.

  39. I’m so embarrassed of my face too. My ex boyfriend stopped and said “I don’t want to do this anymore if I’m hurting you” and I was like “no that’s just my natural face” 😕 ugh

  42. It’s why I’m there and those faces that get made are some of the most beautiful.

  44. Usually I’m not watching intently because I’m feeling what’s going on. My wife could make the dumbest face possible and I could still probably bust about 4 seconds after

  45. It’s the best part. Gives me the motivation to make sure she gets 2 or 3 before I get mine. Get out of your head, you’ll thank yourself for it.

  46. It’s huge important and her face is absolutely amazing building up to an orgasm. Laying her on her back and going down on her until she orgasms while playing with her tits and watchjng her face is more pleasuring for me than my orgasming… she (any woman) is just beautiful in that position of sensuality!!

  49. The weirder you think your face looks, the hotter it is, because it’s that much more proof that you have lost control.

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