age gap of 7 years

5 comments

1. Ussualy are not cool, OP, maybe above 30 when both have experience en life and in dating potentially speaking.

   He probably wanna settle down and you are in uni! Are you both gonna wait 2 years?

   It’s a bit weird the only good things you mentioned about him was about his job and position, what are the other good traits you like?

2. So long as you both understand that in terms of balance you can’t currently bring to the table what he can there isn’t really an issue. It’s also not a case of you suddenly have to start living with him. It’s ok to date and live with parents, or friends or whatever. Let him know you feel unsure about the disparity between your circumstances. And if you are going to live with him decide together on how and what is fair for you to contribute until you are more situationally stable.

3. Hi, my husband is 7 years older than me. We’ve been together since I was 25 and he, 32. I’m now 57 and he’s 64. We moved to north Carolina from Chicago 13 years ago. We went for his job and I quit my job of 20 years and was told I wouldn’t need to work because of his raise. But here we are, he wants to retire and I won’t be eligible for Medicare for 7 more years. Now I need to get a job, at 57, to acquire health insurance.
   Think about that early on and plan accordingly. 🤞✌

4. no, it’s not. you are at different life stages. additionally your frontal lobe has not fully developed and you are incapable of keeping up with him mentally. he is possibly grooming you.

5. >Is a 7 year age gap cool?

   Why do we have these stupid threads everyday?

   Don’t let other people dictate what you should or should not do. If you want to yes, if no then don’t.

   Do you think a couple of idiots on Reddit who don’t know either of you are gonna give you your solution?