Hey all, just a question that I don’t even know I’ll be able to get an answer to here, but here goes nothing. I never seem to get an erection just normally outside of watching porn or random boners here and there (mind you they aren’t that common). Is this a problem? am I just not a horny person? I have a really good friend who tells me how she and others can just get horny from things in her head or that they see in real life but I only ever seem to get “horny” persay if I open up porn. I’m definitely not addicted and can still get erections without porn if I get physical and also only masturbate about once a week. I just wish I was more horny naturally? Is this a problem? If so is there anyway to increase my libido?
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It wouldn’t be uncommon that all that porn has desensitized you. Try taking a break from it.
Working out and eating healthy can help you maximize your libido. Everyone has a different level, so don’t expect to be crazy horny.
There’s no set amount of times per week you should/could masturbate, so don’t force it.
Why do you wish you were more horny? Are you dating someone?
I don’t think it’s necessarily a problem by itself. Some people just can’t get going from thoughts alone and need visual stimulation. But I’d recommend taking a break from porn for a while and seeing if that helps, too much porn can be unhelpful
It won’t be an issue when you find your partner! Just thinking of their lips, or hands, or things you’ve done will be enough to get you excited! It’s normal to ask questions! Just don’t stress it out!