I’ve seen quite a few posts on Reddit where women say that if a guy asks them for anal, they say only if the guy takes it anally first.
I would be okay with that deal, I wouldn’t mind. But what I’m wondering is are they bluffing? Because most guys go hell no and then they can change topics. What if a guy was okay with that deal, would you follow through?
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Plenty of women like pegging their men. Some are curious but hesitant and want a concession. Some are trying to set up a conditional circumstance to discourage the demand. Depends on the person. Best to ask how thry feel about it divorced of any pressure.
I would happily follow thru I have said this!
My gf said the same thing and i called her bluff and it worked good luck brotha
Lol I’ve said this to men before, “you either have a big dick or you have anal…which one do you have?” And it’s really just a joke, but I think maybe they are scared. I’ve been with people who don’t wanna take their time and that’s no fun with anal for me. Gotta take it slow and be nice, especially with a large dick. Pegging would be so fun though and i would totally be into it if my man asked.
Usually such tit for tat proposals are not made in good faith, no.
They’re not exactly good faith even when they’re serious, either.
I’ve pegged more guys than I can count. Most enjoy the stimulation it gives to the male g spot aka prostate. Anal feels fucking amazing once you learn to just relax
My gf is down but I’m a bit thick and would be a little painful
I think the point is not necessarily as anything apart from having the man understand the preparation, lube and cleaning required. If he is already showing consideration about other sex acts its probably not a huge deal. and it isn’t discussed.
I have never used that idea as my partners have always been super considerate. I have discussed it with my partner and told him that if he wants to try any form of prostate play I am open to alearn & try nything that gives him fun. He hasn’t taken me up on my open offer.
A lot of time you see that idea discussed, the guy won’t take no for an answer and keeps askihg/badgering , is being physically handsy in that area after being told no. For those men its a way to push back to make him think. Its a way to get the guy to back off and stop pushing. Of course the better solution to that would be to exit the relationship.
Yes I would follow through. Because the point is that he realizes he cant put it in dry without doing anything to work up to it and then bitch about it not being like porn afterwards lol
Or he just chickens out, that’s fine too 😂
Mine def bluffed but it’s okay cus I liked getting pegged anyways lol just found her something new she likes now.
Some are bluffing. Some actually want to peg. Others may even want to watch their guy with a guy and it’s a subtle way to throw that out there.
When I hear that, it’s not that they are bluffing, it’s that they are making their objection more vivid: “You wouldn’t like it if I did it to you.”
If I were with a woman I did not trust to keep her word, I _certainly_ would not trust her enough to put something in my ass.
Some are bluffing, so you’re right to be skeptical. Others may genuinely just want to make sure you are intimately aware of how it feels before reciprocating. Personally I feel like someone who really wants to be anally penetrated will ask to work up to that with steps like fingering and plugs first if not just volunteering to try it. But your partner may just really prefer topping, and is willing to trade off. You really have to ask them and feel it out.
I don’t think they are. Trust me everyone is kinkier then you think you just have to take the chance to push boundaries within reason of course. Had a girl I worked with. I posted my number on FB & about an hour later I get a text from her. She was IT at work. She was the one every straight guy wanted. I even had my buddy jealous after I showed the texts. Part of the conversation was her saying you could fuk me & my female roommate BUT we want to peg you & put you in a cage. Before that I would’ve never guessed it. But after that Everytime we locked eyes I could see that kinky little mistress in her.
This is exactly how our conversation went. Now we both take in the ass.
It makes sense in several aspects. Men who bottoms know how to slowly prep ass with lube massage finger play .. in short they know the pain when it is done wrong. They also know how to be clean, use gloves and avoid contaminating vagina. They know the mechanism and procedures. They also know the thrill. … I would not want women who never experienced anal as bottom to play with my ass either.
Absolutely not. I meant that 100% and followed through.
Prostate orgasms are better than penile, they better not be bluffing.