I had a major falling out with my best friend in the beginning of the year and after a lot of time assessing everything leading up to our fight, I would like to apologize to her.
I’m not expecting anything from the apology – I just want to let her know how much I value her and her friendship and what I’ve learned through this time.
Should I ask her if she wanted to talk or should I just apologize with an open conclusion giving her the opportunity to choose whether to respond or not? I would prefer apologizing in person but it’s not really possible anymore and I fear that if I ask her about it, she might not want to talk in any form at all.
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Apologize, then ask her if she wants to talk. Be honest and show her that you care, get it all out.
An apology doesn’t need a response.
Just apologize and if she doesn’t respond don’t worry. An apology, if sincere, is for both of you. You will feel better.