On the first sexually intimate date, when is the best time to ask for sexual preferences without killing the mood/making things awkward?

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1. Any time. I’ve never had that discussion kill the mood. Instead, it makes it more exciting.

2. I’ve never had that conversation kill the mood. If anything, it makes things even spicier. In answer to your question though, I prefer to have that conversation ASAP.

3. I feel like that’s something to talk about beforehand.

4. If anything, isn’t that kind of talk building the mood rather than killing it…?

5. Anytime. If it kills the mood, he can bounce.

6. You should talk about those things before getting physically intimate