I’m currently kind of seeing this girl. We talk a lot, tease each other and mess around.
She says she loves me but i recently found out shes kind of sexting another guy? We kind of do the same but i get the impression she goes into more detail with this guy.
From the little of information i have is that shes told him she likes me but she likes him in a “sexual” way i guess? Im not sure if thats where it ended or if it went to full blown sexting. From what the guy says it went pretty far but this is all speculation. In my head all i can think about is her messaging him saying stuff like “im fingering myself over you” maybe a bit drastic but just cant shake it from my head.
We aren’t officially dating do I have a right to be angry?
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Put your foot down if she doesn’t respect it look elsewhere.
You’re both terribly young – I don’t mean this as a put down, not at all. She’s lacking in maturity, and using sexual attention as a means for self-affirmation.
In adult terms, it’s clear that you’re not looking for the same things. Take the time to talk with her about it, asking questions rather than making accusations. The most likely outcome is that you’ll tell her that you’re looking for something deeper, and will probably have better luck finding it with someone else. There is no reason for this to be dramatic (or traumatic). I’m guessing that you’ll have no difficulty at all in swaying someone who is more in line with what you’re looking for.
You sound like a terrific young dude – I wish you all the best in your romantic adventures.