I (m27) want to break up with my gf(24). I’ve been with my gf for a year now & things were great at the beginning but they haven’t been lately. We’ve been getting into more frequent arguments lately & im not really happy anymore. I feel like I’ve lost feelings for her. She’s been having so much trouble at her home involving her mom & things got pretty bad with them to the point where she called the cops on her. It’s just too much for me & it feels like it never stops & I just can’t keep up anymore. Am I just being an asshole about this?
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If you aren’t happy, move on.
You should define your needs and values. Happiness comes and goes, can you work on it in this relationship? You being hesitant to leave says that there is something you find valuable in her. What is it? In every relationship there will be some drama. Maybe if you enagage more and not run away things might become better?
Seems like this girl is in a rough position already, she doesnt need a man who will not provide some support and want to leave when a problem appears, so you better get it straight.