I’m trying not to make this long but last year I started working for a security company as a dispatcher and I became really good friends with the guys working there and most of them are like brothers to me now. I eventually because a supervisor for the dispatchers and I was close to one of the guys and everyone said we had chemistry and he’d talk about me all the time.
I personally could see it but I just saw us as really good friends and felt that if anything would happen it would happen naturally. Eventually I met his mom and his grandparents and they loved me and we hung out soo much that if someone couldn’t contact him they would contact me instead. He’s not really much of a person that is always on their phone and takes a while to text back but this doesn’t bother me. Outside of work and even on the field we were always together.
At the time I knew he was going through it with his ex and how he didn’t see them getting back together and we always talked about that and how we don’t like random hook ups or anything like that. We were both celibate but recently I finally found the courage to ask him to have sex and he agreed and even had me spend the night but anytime we drink or hang out as his place he has me stay the night. My friends think I should ask him “what we are” but I don’t know if I feel the need to🤷🏾♀️. Any advice or guidance would be great.