I have people I could call friends, but I still feel slightly lonely. it’s better than before as I had literally NO friends at all aside of my sister and cousin.

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  1. My previous best friend I met playing videogames. When I play I like to be semi active in chat, and when I meet someone that responds back I try and grab them to my friends list and build that relationship. Often it wouldn’t go anywhere but with one person it did.

    Ive also made a lot of friends through hobbies with the same process really. Put out feelers for discussion and try and grab onto those who bite.

  2. I have a lot of best friends, hard to say who the best is. I met most of my friends in my 20’s. If you want to meet new potential friends, one way to do it is through mutual interests, activities, etc. Another way is through current friends. Maybe your sister and cousin have friends you can hang with as well. What do you think?

  3. Tbh I don’t have any friends apart from my bestfriend. I’m from Pakistan and so you see many people from backward places living in urban cities (I don’t even fit with the educated ones my interests are very different from the general population that’s probably the reason i don’t have friends). Anyways we take these private tuitions after school time and 2 years ago mid 2020 I joined a private center and he as well. All other guys were assholes and even I had a friend at that time but this guy didn’t, I first talked to him when we both were waiting for the same class (we were in the same grades) he seemed to me a pretty backward but pure hearted guy and so our talking began. I hated talking to people (I had some bad experiences with people ghosting on me after they had gotten their work done) but this guy was a simple person. We started hanging out together, he came from a poor family and I from a fairly middle class. His financial circumstances came in the way for the private tuitions but because education is free he is still enrolled. We didn’t end our talking after he left, I invited him for a cup of tea and then it became a routine, although we may not share the same interests but this person really made me realise that not all people are psycopath narcissists.

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