my gf has this co ed group of friends back in her hometown that she sees like once every few months. I dislike this group alot and they don’t seem to like me either. They speak a different language also and one girl said that she doesn’t like me in front of everyone when i was there for a hangout in a language i didn’t understand. She sees the group like 5-6 times a year. she usually emphasizes that she wants me there but i can’t stand that group of friends. She doesn’t see them very often and i like her college friends, who I would happen to see more often anyway. After a few months, they finally meet again and my gf confronted the girl in her friend group and that girl wants to apologize to me for her behavior. I don’t really believe in that friends “apology” and I told her I’m not going to hangout with her hometown friends again. My gf is upset and doesn’t see where i’m coming from and can’t understand why i don’t want to hang out with them again. Am i in the wrong ? any advice ?
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Nope, not in the wrong. You cannot be forced to like people you don’t like. Women do the same with men who have friends that are less grown up. Men stop hanging out with them for the sake of the women.
These people are townies who obviously have no life and have not grown up like you or your gf. I don’t see why she would still want to see them. Sticking with the college friends is the better ideal relationships.