I like her alot I really do but I’m just not sure how to approached her about it, she just came out of a relationship pretty roughly in the last year (not sure exactly when) and now that she’s on the market I’m just too scared to act on it because I don’t want to ruin what we have of it fails.
She has stated she’s not really looking but is hoping someone comes slong and I’ve been hoping to be that someone but her calling me “buddy” and “homie” throws me off a bunch.
Tldr: wtf do I do to ask someone out
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Shoot! You’re there and just don’t know it if she’s calling you affectionate names. Now ‘screw your courage to the breaking point’ as Hamlet’s wife said, and ask her out.
That being said, there are many reasons – none of them serious – why she might say no at first, so don’t give up.
Good on you for seeking advice. Well its not fool proof… Women generally (not all) like someone to be confident, funny and interesting and to be themselves. Having humility is an important quality.
Simply find a good time to talk to her in person in a comfortable time and environment and tell her you like her and what you like about her, how she makes you feel. If she doesn’t feel the same way, accept her feelings don’t take it to heart. At 17 there are many opportunities to make good memories, mistakes and learn from them most importantly.
As the saying goes “You’ll never miss all of the shots you don’t take in life”, but if you take those chances you just might succeed and get better the more chances you take.
“Hey I like you – would you wanna go out with me?”