Men, how do you create opportunities to find a romantic partner without the use of online dating?

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1. Met my girlfriend where i previously studied. Asked a girl that was her friend to introduce me, and things went off from there; i also had success randomly asking a girl’s number on a public place like “hey i saw you and you are gorgeous, maybe i can know you better?” Works pretty well. Don’t know for sure, lad. You make your own chances with this, i never used online dating lol, waste of time

2. Don’t be fallin’ in love while she’s walking away.

3. I usually meet them when I am out and a out, usually at events or event just walking around.

4. Going to parties or events, don’t go specifically to try to find someone to date. I met my now wife on International Talk Like A Pirate Day at a fancy-dress pirate cruise.

   We were both there with friends, no intention of hooking up or meeting anyone. Lots of mingling, everyone in good spirit, we got talking and the rest is history.

5. Through work and hobbies mainly. combined with knowing women’s body language signs when thier attracted to me. here’s a tip if she is intentionally making sure she’s in your sight it’s a solid chance she wants you to strike up a conversation.

6. Have money

7. First serious relationship: our respective flights got delayed and we got drunk at an airport bar.

   Second serious relationship: was on holiday, joined some group which was shown around by locals, she was the guide; got into an argument quickly.

   Current relationship (for lack of a better word): had a stupid accident, she was the doc on call at the hospital.

8. You talk to women like a normal person.

9. Basically go outside. Find things that you enjoy doing. Then find groups to join. Volunteer groups are great for meeting people. I work in the energy industry and move every 3 months to 2 years. The first thing I do is find out what car clubs are in the area and join one or two. Those are usually overwhelming sausage fest. But it’s a good way to meet guys to hangout with and being outside provides more opportunities than riding your couch at home. Plus having a couple cool cars are some what of a magnet. Habitat for Humanity is a good charity to meet a lot of people quickly, food banks ,animal shelters, art/drawing classes and so on. Just make sure it’s something you enjoy doing. So even if you don’t make any friends, at least you’ll have fun.

10. U dont.