So I wanted to get over this guy and I blocked him a week ago to create space. But now I feel like I wasn’t being polite. Also I will have to see him after Christmas for at least 2 months because of work.
I didn’t say anything because he was not interested and never texted me. So I thought he wouldn’t discover anyway.
Should I send him a message explaining everything?
Many many thanks for reading!
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No.
Don’t message him. You’ll only feel embarrassed afterwards. He clearly hasn’t noticed. Sorry.
I’d say it’s whatever if you unblock him but I wouldn’t sent a message explaining anything there’s no need and there’s a chance you’d just feel embarrassed abt it yk. If he asks then that would be the best time to explain but other than that there’s really no need
Giving yourself some space may make it easier for you to see him after Christmas for those two months. He doesn’t need an explanation as to why you pulled away after you expressed interest in him and he didn’t feel the same way.
Try to focus on other things and have some fun over the holiday. Don’t give him so much space in your brain—this is not one of those things that gets better with overthinking. This is not a problem to be solved. If he wants to talk it over, he will contact you. ❤️
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your decision
I guess you should tell him if he asks you about it, other than that there’s not much reason
Sounds like my situation, but I’m the person being blocked (coincidentally for about a week now).
Difference is we use to talk all the time (known this person for about 6 years). I’m going through a tough patch right now, and my friend suddenly blocked me. Really sad and I want to know why. But if they cut comms then I respect their decision, and it sours the relationship if it ever gets rekindled. If it doesn’t, then goodbye.