What stops you from planning a date when you like someone but continue to message them daily?

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1. Anxiety mostly.

2. Usually the reasons are either anxiety, not having the time or not being sure the feelings are mutual.

3. If you do that, it’s because you’ve entered the friendzone. In order to get out, you need to be direct with your intentions

4. Nothing. I can’t imagine doing this, ever. If she lives near me the messaging would be mainly about what we are going to do next together.

5. Distance, other obligations (read: kids), difficulty in scheduling.

6. I hate planning 🤷🏻‍♂️

7. For me that would be knowledge that i don’t know what to do and where to go ona a date lol