She was extremely quiet, and I was pretty anxious there (I am working on my social anxietey, but sometimes I just have a hard time to open), as I could only talk to the people I knew already, and we didn’t really mix. I was waiting for some better opportunity (yes this was the mistake I shouldve avoided), but she ended up leaving extremely early. I was talking about my hobby, she showed geniune interest but we couldn’t really dive deeeper as other activity got recommended/forced. I suspect we have the same hobbies. Is this a missed opportunity, or should I try texting her? Is this wierd? Or rather ask/recommend our common friend to invite her next time we go out? (We regularly go out to drink, play games, etc.)
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Shoot your shot! The worst that can happen is she is uninterested and you move on. Something like “I had a great time talking with you at the party, I wish we could’ve gotten some more time to talk” or something around those lines.
I did this with a girl in my friend group where we too regularly went out and drank or played games. It was awkward for like a weekend after I asked her out on a date, but then it was business as usual. Again, you don’t have much to lose!
Yep, say something!! Go for it.