Women who felt like they were broken up with because they’re not enough, who did that person end up with? Is it actually “better” than you?

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1. He ended up alone, karma!

2. I’m not sure if you meant that you feel like you weren’t enough or the person told you were not enough.

   If they told you you were not enough : my ex ended up with nobody, texted me a couple years later to tell me I taught him some very valuable lessons about life and relationships and that he thinks of me often.Turns out that it’s not that I was not enough, he felt like he wasn’t and projected it onto me.

   If you feel like you’re not enough: YOU ARE. There’s no such a thing as not being enough for someone. There can be incompatibility, characters issues, conflits but you’re always enough.

3. He ended up alone and single and I’m now married to my best friend. He texted me that he made a mistake and wanted to talk. It felt really satisfying to ignore it after all the pain he and his mother put me through

4. There is no definite answer to this question as everyone experiences heartbreak differently. Some people may feel that the person they were broken up with ended up with someone who is better than them, while others may not feel this way. Ultimately, it is up to the individual to decide whether or not the person they were broken up with is better than them.

5. He dated the other woman for 6 months, making a point to keep contacting me to tell me how much better than me she was.

   Then they split up and he stalked me for 3 years trying to get me to go back to him because he “made a mistake”.

   He still sends me one letter a year around Christmas full of bullshit about how he’s changed and he’s sorry and can I please give him another chance.

   He’s pathetic, I’m glad he cheated and left so I could find someone worthwhile and wonderful.

6. No idea.

   I don’t stalk exes or keep in contact with them.

   Better things to do with my life.

7. The one guy who dumped me for another girl back in college never told me that I wasn’t enough, but that it was all “his fault”, haha.

   Years later I met a mutual friend who told me he gained 50 pounds after cocaine withdrawal. Oh well.

8. Things haven’t actually resolved yet for us; he told me he was in love with her and leaving me for her, but he keeps changing his mind and now he says he’s just best friends with her.

   Either way, from what he’s said she’s very similar to me, but she’s hypersexual and sleeps with married men whereas I am asexual and only had eyes for him 🙁