CONTEXT: I (26F) am a college student gearing up for finals. Normally, I don’t stress too much about school, but for some reason, this semester’s quite different. Right now, I just started dating someone (29M). Very new and very happy. We’ve done some things, but we’ve never had sex. I’m a virgin (he knows), and I want to wait ‘till I get to know him better (he knows that as well). The thing is, because I am so stressed, I need him to be my comfort i.e., to be cuddled with, but because I am so sexually aroused these past few days, I don’t think that this would be a great idea.
WHAT DO I DO??
(Not sure if this is the right sub to vent/ask for advice, but here I am)
1 comment
I personally find honesty is the best policy. Even blunt or brutal honesty. Just tell him how you honestly feel. That you need him. Communication is key
Or you just pleasure yourself to get rid of the feeling