My girlfriend of 1 year has never orgasmed from sex, and can only do it when she masturbates alone. I’ve had her try to rub her clit while we have sex, and she says it’s a mental thing that she gets very aroused, but has nerves around other people, so she can’t orgasm with me. Obviously I want to make her orgasm, and I can last very long with her, any techniques to help her overcome this mental block?
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Try mutual masturbation! Perhaps have her show you what she likes and do the same things. Or just really take time to explore.
If it’s a mental thing, there’s no real way around that, but maybe focusing on helping her feel as comfortable as can be.
> How do I make my girlfriend
Terrible use of language. You don’t “make” anyone do anything. That’s gonna make her drier than midsummer’s day in the Sahara.
You could say *How can I help my girlfriend* that going to help her “flood her basement”
Start slow. Really slow. Even slower than you think. Don’t jump straight to her clit or straight to penetration.
Make out with her for a while. Hold her, touch her, tease her.
Have you tried going down on her? Using a vibrator?
Get her to masturbate to orgasm with you in the same room