So fairly often i go down on my gf. When she has reached orgasm, she usually pushes my head away as to say “you don’t need to continue annymore.”
Somethimes however, i continue a while after she has orgasmed, without her indicating that i should stop.
The thing is, i often would like to continue, if she likes it.
I don’t understand if it’s because she dosn’t think that i want to continue longer then “neccessary”, or if she just dosn’t enjoy it more after orgasm.
As a guy, i loose almoast all sexual arousal after orgasm, but as i understand, that can be different for girls.
I’ve asked her about it, and she sais that it depends. Sometimes she likes when i continue, and sometimes it dosn’t do much for her.
I just want her to know that i don’t HAVE to stop, just becouse she reached orgasm. Sometimes i’d gladly continue.
Girls on this subreddit, how is it for you? Are you still aroused after orgasm, or would you rather want your partner to stop?
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When my wife pushes me away, it’s because she’s super-sensitive after having an orgasm and more stimulation is “too much of a good thing”. She doesn’t want to be licked anymore; she wants to get fucked.
Your partner is different (unless there’s something my wife needs to tell me) so you should be asking *her*.
She gets too sensitive once she cums. Either focus on an area other than her clit or do something else like enter her. Go with her signals.
I think you have a good system in place! Keep going until she pushes your head away. I don’t see a problem here. You seem to be communicating about this just fine, so keep that up. 🙂
Doesn’t matter what we like, it only matters what she likes.
Try to keep going after she orgasms it might make her squirt. Have gotten a few women to squirt with my tongue. When she orgasms it magnifies her sensitivity down there and from my experiences most start to squirm and want to stop. Pretty sure that’s the point where they think they are going to pee and they would probably have a squirting orgasm if you kept going.
My partner is the same specially after oral she gets very sensitive and sometimes it can be uncomfortable for her to continue getting oral so she tells me to stop or go slow or pushes me away. Doesn’t happen as often with PIV though as she can continue right after cumming. Everyone’s different
Sounds like she’s sensitive after an orgasm and needs you to take a break. A good next move is to kiss the skin or put in your penis.