im scared my boyfriend (m23) will notice my (f21) insecurities during sex. i am chubby and i know he likes my body but bc im not completely comfortable (working on it tho!) in my body, i often think about my insecurities during sex and how he looks at them and then i imagine he thinks my body is ugly đ makes me sad and i hate to talk about it irl
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I was the exact same way and still am, but I feel, if you let him love you for the both of you, it can kinda counteract it. Like I like that they like my body. And Im glad I have a body they like, even if I do not like my body myself.
If he’s into you he won’t notice any of those insecurities in a bad way. He gets to be naked with you and do stuff. His mind will be occupied by that.
Oh how I wish I could explain to women how the male brain works. During sex he isnât looking at imperfections with your body. The thought process is literally âboobs, I like boobs. Oh, that feels good. I hope she keeps going. Oh, boobs again, they are my favorite. Wow, sheâs really good at this. Boobs are great. Her butt is so smooth. Oh god donât cum yetâ.
Thereâs literally no thought of your perceived imperfections.