What are some things couples do or think is normal that would cross a boundary for you?

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1. Sharing a joint Facebook or Instagram account. It would feel like sharing a toilet for me

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3. Spending ALL their free time together and getting upset whenever the other wants to do something alone.

   Also, sharing a toothbrush, ew.

4. Major public PDA, as I’ve gotten older it makes me more and more uncomfortable

5. Sharing a bank account. We split stuff evenly in my relationship but usually just send eachother half when needed. There’s something weird and potentially financially controlling about sharing a bank account to me.

6. Using the bathroom while they’re in there/with the door open. Bathroom time is sacred time.

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8. I’m trying to get better and less strict with some of my boundaries. Like harmless flirtation, harmless talking to girls…those used to be a huge boundary for me. They still kind of are. But im getting better with it.

   I used to be psychooo about this stuff until I realized it’s just kind of natural, my man loves and adores me, bends over backwards for me, etc, so I’ve lightened up on assuming every girl he encounters is someone he wants to bang. And even if that’s true, if he doesn’t act on it then I don’t need to flip out about it.

9. Tracking each other’s locations.