Did one or both of you catch feels when least expected, or did one party want more down the line? Why did you start as Fwb? What was your initial perception of your partner (attraction and connection wise)?

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  2. We were fwb for about 2 years.

    She started getting jealous because I was seeing other women too. She asked for a relationship. I said ,”Sure”.

    About a week later I found out she had been married the whole time.

  3. Started sleeping with my sisters good mate – sisters pal caught feelings first, was very honest about it, and we carried on.

    13 years later, we’re married, kids, mortgage, car and caravan on the drive, so all good in the end 👍

  4. We were friends from high school. We hung out all the time after high school ended and we got along great. Got drunk once and fucked. Stayed friends and then inevitably it happened again and again and again.

    Finally I was like maybe we should just try dating? Problem was there was a reason I never made any move before we were drunk that first time. I didn’t really find her especially attractive. Like attractive enough to have sex with sure but never was like damn what’s up. She was like a brother more so. It’s why we were friends in the first place.

    Long story short it was one of the driving factors that ended our engagement five years later. I’d give the whole experience 7/10. It was great but then the ending got weird.

  5. They were two bi women who were friends of a friend. I met one of them before the other, and she and I hit it off pretty well. She talked about how she and her gf were looking to try adding a guy into the mix. We took it slow to see how things went and eventually it became a FWB. After a while they both asked if I wanted it to be a more serious Poly relationship. It was great because we got along so well outside of the bedroom and all that.

    I have to say though, anyone who catches feelings in a FWB is perfectly normal. But typically that’s a blunder on their end or at least the boundaries were not properly calibrated.

  6. It depends, were you just friends before the benefits started? Or someone you met recently and just started hooking up? I’ve been down both alleys, longtime friend, grew up graduated together. Always close then after highschool me, her and good buddy of mine all moved in to an apartment. Started out as making out once in a while, then evolved into basically hooking up for fun often. It’s fun but feelings weren’t talked about so when I was interested in another girl all hell broke loose. Ruined our friendship, she moved out few months later
    ..haven’t talked since

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