I am looking for advice on how to proceed. I still want to try it, eventually, but I’m looking for advice from people like me.
For context, I am immunocompromised and on medications that make it easy for me to succumb to infection. I even have to be aware of cat scratches, paper cuts, etc., We’ve been talking about trying anal for a while. I’ve been reading the FAQ on here, and it lessens the anxiety…I’m just still unsure if I should.
I know that even with toys, rips and tears can happen – and that nobody really is at fault. I’m also terrified of the pain. He is well-endowed both in length and girth, which I love and is perfect. I just know it’s going to hurt regardless of warming up for that area.
How likely is it that I, or people like me, could get an infection? Is it safe for people like us, or should I just have a thorough conversation of “yeah, I’d like to experiment and try, but I can’t afford any more health risks right now?”
If things should/will be safe – then how do I proceed for ‘prepping” for someone who is on the bigger end of the spectrum?