Hey new here and still trying to work everything out. As I’ve posted on other subs, I’m in the market for my first sex toy, particularly a DP toy. This has provoked some thoughts; I’ve never actually been DPd, nor had any kind of threesome, and I’m sat here thinking how you would realistically find a third guy, and what the usual process would be from there?
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Your post asks how you find a third guy. This infers that you already have a guy in mind and only need to find a third guy. I would start by talking to your bf or whoever you already have in mind as your first guy.
I don’t think there is a specific way for it. You go out and hit on someone, dating apps, subreddits for hookups, sex clubs or ask a friend
My (M50) most recent threesome was with a couple that contacted me on Swingtowns. I’m in an open marriage, but play solo, and just connected well. I would look around that site, Feeld, and Fetlife.
The rest is a vetting process. The couple that I joined told me about the ups and downs of finding good play partners, so I’d think marathon not sprint, to help manage expectations during the search.