In 2 relationships i had my used to be partner turned mentally and even physically abusive after we acted out those fantasies in bed.
Since then i act mostely dominant in bed.
Is there a way as guy to act submissive in bed without opening oneself up for abuse.
Second are there even women out there that like guys beeing submissive in bed? Is it unhealthy for the relationship if the guy acts subbmisive in bed? Thanks alot.
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There’s way too much context missing here. Tons of relationships incorporate elements of feminine dominace into sex without any problems. Lots of women like taking control or being worshipped and enjoy a man putting their desires first, even if it’s not all the time.
Something was going on with your previous partners, there should be no link between you being submissive in bed and them becoming abusive.
Before my bf and I got into switching between Dom and sub, we talked about our expectations and hard limits. Neither one was into humiliation, name calling, abusive behavior, anger induced actions. We wanted a loving exchange of power.
Communicate. Set boundaries. Just because you’re submissive doesn’t mean you’re not a strong minded person who can stand up for yourself. Plenty of women enjoy being the dominant one. But doesn’t mean abuse by any means. It’s all communication idk. Good luck