I very recently started having sex and it’s been a learning curve tbh. I really really enjoy it but one thing I don’t get is what to do when he’s inside me? Like depending on the position, I have been doing kegels or touching him but should I be doing something else like thrusting/grinding back? What else do guys appreciate/go crazy for?
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stroke his hair, hug his body with your legs and arms, feel yourself. Just put your hands on everything within reach
Fuck him back. Gyrate your hips and push into him. Or in doggy style push your hips back and forth into him rhythmically.
Fondle his balls if possible, that is awesome!
Don’t hold back on the moaning.
Every guy’s different. Do something. Some like dirty talk. Some like moaning. Maybe just tell him how good he feels inside you. Put your hands on him, feel him. Lightly scratch him with your nails. Play with his nipples. Wrap your legs around him and pull him deeper. And yes, hump him back – everyone basically wants positive feed back, to know that their partner is feeling pleasure, that what they are doing is being well received. If you are enjoying yourself and help with the fucking, I know I’m doing something right.
And maybe talk to him afterwards and ask him, what drives him ‘crazy’?
And afterwards, tell him how wonderful it was and how you can’t wait to do it again.
I wouldn’t gyrate/thrust in a way that would throw off his rhythm (unless y’all agree to brattiness during sex). My lover and I take turns controlling the motion and tempo. Outside of the bedroom, negotiate stuff like hair pulling. My lover doesn’t like receiving but enjoys giving. You can negotiate hickeys, scratching, slapping, dirty talk, etc.