I (21M) am seeing (21F) and we have known each other since like the first grade. Always flirty, and childhood “dates”. A few years ago I took her on a date but it didn’t feel right. Fast forward 5 years and 1 relationship and we started talking once again. And this time it feels so right. We have only been on 2 dates so far but texting everyday for the better part of a month now. She is having surgery Friday and I was wondering if it’s weird or an overstep to offer that I am cool with just watching a movie or show with her while she’s recovering and that I could bring food or a drink or something. Unsure if I should proceed with this idea? We have loose plans to meet up again before she lives on a trip in just over a week, but I thought this could be nice too?
Thanks for any insight and other perspectives
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No, it’s not a good idea. You are moving way too fast. Don’t be so fucking needy. Show her you can live without her for a week
I would argue communication is key. Have the conversation with her and ask her if it’s something she would be comfortable with. Depending on the complexity of the surgery she may say that she’s not. On the other hand she may be comfortable with it. There is no harm in having the conversation, especially if communication is important to you. If you go this route make the conversation light and try not to pressure her for an immediate answer if she says she would like to think about it.