Hiiii
I (f19) don’t usually post things like this. My boyfriend (m19) is awesome in bed and super sweet. He picks up on my needs from my reactions and I trust him completely. But I am not at all good at saying what I want. He wants me to tell him what I want him to do or what I want to do and I just can’t make the words come out I’m so shyy. I want to tell him I do but it’s hard to talk about things like that for me. I am very vocal in terms of like moaning and I do push him towards things I want but I just can’t seem to get any words out it’s so embarrassing and nervewracking
But I know I need to communicate better in bed. Especially because he wants me to beg for certain things and I do want them so badly but I’m so shy about that kind of thing and it doesn’t come naturallyyy
Help??
3 comments
You just need to try to breathe in and breathe out slowly and softly and relax trust me when I tell you when you start telling him what you want and begging for him to It will work out perfect for you and it will be very pleasurable
Just try very hard to relax and Get comfortable with yourself and with him Communication is the key to any relationship whether it be sexual or not Just remember communicating Tell him how you feel tell him what you want
do you want him to try to guess what you want?