I know STDs happen even with a condom, but it’s mainly the implication that she’s letting multiple guys hit without wearing a condom that bothered me. I never minded being apart of her roster cause we lived in different cities, and I realized she wasn’t exactly wifey material during the pandemic but we still got a long very well. We haven’t hooked up in a while and I’ve been tested since our last time so I’m good. We were just on and off FWBs for almost 7 years but after reading that text I couldn’t think of anything nice to say so I just ended up ghosting her, so now I feel like an asshole.
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Even with a condom, you can get it, and that’s a reason for you to go away
You can get STDs even if you use condoms.
You’re asking the wrong questions here. Please go tested first. That should be your main concern. Then yeah you can move on with your life.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. You knew she was seeing multiple guys, so this is the price you pay.
Now all you can do is get tested, inform your partners is necessary, and get on with it.
Ask her what it was, tell her you done at least for a while and then get tested. Doesn’t completely ghost her and if you got something other than what she said, you know never to go back.
Ask her what STD it is and go get tested. See what’s up. Tell her you’re not doing this anymore if she’s being irresponsible. You can still catch something with condoms so she might not even be irresponsible.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzthb6gqLDY text her this
“Which one? Do you still have it”
Most STDs are temporal; so if she’s good then who cares
It’s nothing wrong with not wanting to deal with her anymore after her catching an STD, no need to feel like an asshole.. she should be more carful with who she’s letting enter the premises and that’s a problem for *her* to deal with
“Thanks for letting me know, text me when you’re healed”.
Sex is never 100% safe. Most you can do is take as many precautions as you can, test often and be with honest partners to cure anything you might catch as early as possible.
It was good of her to level with you. Realize the more time you spend with women that aren’t wifey material, the less hubby material you are showing yourself to be.
bye
You’re clean. That’s all that matters. Maybe just stay away from her. Remove yourself from her roster of men.
“bye”
There are 403 good reasons to ghost.
“Let’s stick to handjobs, then.”
Get a real girlfriend loser
People catch diseases from other people, sometimes through no fault of their own. Would you be upset if she caught a cold from someone else? I would be happy she informed me responsibly so I could get tested and stop the chain.