I have a “hot wife” kink. I find it very hot to think of my wife with other people (men or women). Not in a degrading, my wife is a slut way. I don’t ever have sex with anyone but my wife. What would your response be if your partner proposed this to you? Question open to all genders and relationship types. I have always wondered what people would feel about this.
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If my girlfriend said this, I would be upset. But, based on what you’ve said, I think you’ll be fine. She probably would agree.
Personally, I don’t care. Sex is someth8ng that should fade into the background of a relationship. IF that’s what they needed to be fulfilled, I’d be ok with it. But that’s me and my feelings.
Every couples going to be different. Have different boundaries, trust, and goals.
If he wanted to do it exclusively in the context of threesomes where he’s at least involved and enjoying it with me, I’d be open to it.
But not if I was just going out and fucking other guys and he wasn’t fucking other people as well. The inequality of it just makes me uncomfortable.
I’d probably be a bit disappointed. Half the appeal of the fantasy of having sex with other women while in a relationship is fucking the other woman ***with*** my partner.
I’d probably also be a bit suspicious, since a lot of the times I’ve heard about such things, it was part of trickle truthing about wanting an open relationship all around. The person offering just wanted their partner to have fucked someone else or made enough moves towards it that they could be guilted into agreeing that it was only fair that the person who proposed it fuck others outside the relationship, too.
I’m generally against open relationships because I know I cant handle knowing about him with another person but I personally wouldnt have an issue with what you described. Definitely talk it out with your wife as she may have very different boundites. Emphasize that it’s not because you see her in a slut way and tell her what you like about it. Someone mentioned on another post that there’s sexy toys /setups to help with this kink and doesn’t have to involve another person.
I’ve been finding non-exclusivity a lot of fun and I opens me up to a lot of things I never would’ve learned about had I stayed monogamous. Plus it makes your sex life even better when you get to try new things with your partner.
Maybe you could tell her you find cuckholding hot and the idea of her with others turns you on. See how she responds and maybe start from there. Surprisingly cuckholding is a super common kink these days and I find a lot of men will get off on me telling them about past/current other experiences.
I have this relationship, except he doesn’t even get off on me slutting it up, he just doesn’t care haha. We’ve been together 3 years and I still fuck around on the side, he never has.
Well, I’d be SO down. I’m kinda into it too, but ultimately I feel like it would deteriorate our relationship to some degree. So maybe a lower level of it, like kissing and playing with guys would be better in my case
I’d love it! Actually looking for a cuck relationship.