Thought I’ll put two posts in one for my concerns.
First the cleaning my dick thing:
Is that weird, she full inspects it make sure there isn’t one drop, do I need to drink pineapple juice or something? We only started dating on the 15th of August this year I don’t want this to be a constant thing, idk it’s just really weird, and kind of like a “well you don’t have to do it if you don’t want to.” Kinda of thing at one point (she got over it now) she didn’t want me to kiss her after I eat her out, personally I don’t care if she kisses me after giving me head.
Not feeling much with a condom on:
I’ve tried thin feel and ultra thin feel and just bought durex feel but like I can’t feel much at all like I can feel it going in and out but like for example it can’t compare to the contact of my hand on my penis when masturbating.
Ive never tried lube before maybe give that a try? And if you guys think I should try lube any suggestions?
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On your first question: this really depends on the person you’re with. She seems to really don’t enjoy/like body fluids. That’s alright. For me, it’s a deal breaker. It gives me the “you think I’m gross?”-vibe. But again, everybody feels different on that matter.
Maybe you do a death grip while masturbating? That can really affect your feel while having sex. Did you make sure that the condom fits you? You can try to masturbate with a condom on, this way you can try to focus how it feels
Nothing wrong with her cleaning your dick. You want her vag clean right. So if it’s either she washes it or you don’t get a blow job which would you rather happen?
So far as a condom goes. that’s just the way it is. You could always not have sex or you can wear a condom.
She might have some hangups about bodily fluids or something. Whether that’s a dealbreaker for you is the real question, and something you could only discuss with her. I give his penis a once over if it’s going in my mouth, but I’m not cleaning any precum, more of it is going to come anyway.
Be grateful of anyone who sucks your dick and if they clean it thats either a bonus or small tax worth paying. Re kissing after cunnilingus. She sounds like maybe she’s a slight germaphobe and maybe she triggers her own disgust reflex, maybe shes doing what shes read or been told. Re condoms. Yeh they suck, but often you have to use them. You will learn to enjoy them as the human connection of sex is far nicer than a solo wank, which you can do anytime.
Sounds like she doesn’t trust your hygiene. If she’s got good reason to not trust it, you need to step up your game.