I’ve been losing feelings for my boyfriend, we’ve been together for over a year. Our personalities fit so well together, and I’ve always enjoyed being around him.
Until recently, I’ve noticed for the last month my feelings have been fading, and I can’t stop focusing on the bad.
He’s forgotten my birthday, didn’t do anything for our one year, and consistently have proven that he’s not the type of guy to care. He doesn’t really take care of himself, and spends most of his days playing video games.
I’ve talked to him about it, but not much has changed, I’ve been considering breaking up, but I also don’t want to regret that decision.
It’s gotten to the point where I just don’t care anymore, I don’t want to respond to his texts, or hang out with him, which sucks because I used to care so much, I really did see a future with him.
I don’t know, maybe this is normal for after this long of a relationship. sry for the rant, thanks for reading.
1 comment
If he isn’t putting effort into the relationship, it’s normal to lose feelings. After only a year, this isn’t normal. If you’ve tried talking to him and it’s not helping, maybe it’s time to move on. A year actually isn’t that long. Best advice I got was make sure you spend all seasons with someone (at least a year) in order to see how they handle all types of holidays, events, etc before committing to marriage, etc. It sounds like he’s not really willing to put in the effort. Why waste another year disappointed?