ok this is gonna sound weird but i kinda wanna get it off my chest a few days ago i lost my virginity to a 40 year old woman at 18 and i didn’t really enjoy the sex which is kind of worrying and i was wondering if anyone else has had a similiar experience with their first time and is their a reason why i didn’t enjoy it that much or any way to fix it?
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I had an early sexual experience that I didn’t enjoy, came down to inexperience of both me and my partner.
My first time wasn’t that great as well. Performance anxiety kinda makes it weird for the first time since you are still figuring it out and porn has clouded our minds with just jack hammering and no foreplay. Take your time , spend more time on foreplay , learning how to eat a woman out and what positions are pleasurable for both. Dont sweat about it , practice makes perfect
maybe you’re just not into chicks who are as old as your parents.
Most first times are underwhelming.
Sex feels good when _both_ parties are good at it, know what they like, and are comfortable. It takes experience.
People make a huge deal out of first times when it’s the most likely to be forgettable sex in terms of pleasure.