I am (27F) in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend (29F) and I have a very bad feeling about her best friend. She has already told my girlfriend that she doesn’t like me, that she thinks I am the wrong person for her, and that I am selfish for going to another country to work and leaving her. Recently, she put my girlfriend in a telegram group of lesbian women, most of whom are single and have orgies, menages, etc.
I told her that I thought it was strange and that I was uncomfortable with my girlfriend being in this group, but she didn’t care and continued. Am I a toxic person for caring about this?
I trust her, but this friend of hers clearly does not like me and I am afraid that eventually things will escalate. It is worth pointing out that they hooked up once, many years ago. I know I have no right to ask her to leave the group, but what do I do if I feel so bad about this?
She even said that she will go on one of the meetings and that I should trust her, because she just wants new friends.
We have been together for almost six years.
tldr; my girfriend have a best friend that has no boundaries and I´m trying to understand if I´m being too much about this matter
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If you’ve been together for six years when are you ever going to break the distance and actually start moving to the next stage of life?
This best friend is bad, bad news and is actively trying to break you two up.
You say you trust your girlfriend, so what are you actually worried about? And why is your girlfriend relaying negative things someone else said about you to you?
Well i woukd say its hard for relationships to last long distance for long lengths of time. Also why is your gf in a sec group chat if shes exclusive?