Got invited to a wedding for the first time in my life. A part of me wants to go, but always feel like im gonna make a fool of myself.

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1. Go have fun, eat a nice dinner, go home. Say Yes!

2. You’ll regret it later if you don’t go to your friend’s wedding.

3. I am a mix of Italian and Scottish. I have been to a lot of weddings. People making fools of themselves is actually pretty normal.

   People only notice if it’s the Bride, Groom, Wedding Party or Parents of the happy couple. Everyone else gets a free pass.

   Well except for my male cousins that did the worm on the dance floor of their sister’s wedding and got flagged by the bar before they started drinking. Everyone forgot that though when the grooms mother punched the bride in the nose. (Stone cold sober)

   So since I doubt you’ll beat that, your golden!! Have fun 😁

4. Learn one dance move and get good at it. Bust it out once then blend back into the circle

5. The biggest problem in this situation is drinking too much because you are nervous.

   Make sure that you have a non alcohol drink between each alcohol drink.

   Also, beware “vertical drinking” some venues have removed the places to put down your drink, because if you are holding it in your hand, you drink more. It’s a trap.

   Have fun. Go on the dance floor. Dance stupidly. If you are going to give a toast, don’t drink beforehand.

   Remember, everyone else is more focused on what THEY are doing wrong. No one is paying attention to you and your tiny errors.

6. Didn’t you already invite a date?

7. Go and have fun. Enjoy their ceremony. At the reception, talk to the people you are seated with. If you get stuck on what to talk about…ask them about themselves.