For my questions I assume the person giving is willing to deep-throat and consenting.
Of course, like anything else, there are people who perform deep-throating without even trying and there are people who tried their best but couldn’t.
But what’s in between? Is this just something one can do because of the (non existent) gag reflex? Is it that you thought about it and went „why not“ and succeeded? Did you have a hard time trying (again, gag reflex) and became accustomed to it? If so, what did you change?
And what about your throat – is it, to a degree of course, expendable? If so, does it hurt? Or like if the girth of the penis exceeds your throat by a nanometer, you can’t do it?
I’m really green behind the ears here. Any input is welcome!
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I learned quite deliberately by jamming increasingly large objects down my throat until I stopped gagging. It was moderately successful but I hated it and find it unlikely I have retained the ability. Of my friends: one of them naturally had no gag reflex, her party trick was to put an entire magnum/solero ice lolly in her mouth while maintaining perfect poise. Two of my college house mates accidentally affected their ability by having anorexia bulimia, one had enhanced her gag reflex to the point she would gag at the slightest thing and struggled to even use a toothbrush. The other had lot her reflex completely.
I’ll get half way down her throat. My girth is that nanometer thicker than her throat. So really tough on her gag reflex
The throat can stretch a bit, not like a vagina but somewhat. I found I actually enjoyed it when I was very relaxed and not feeling pressured at all.
As someone else said, gagging a little isn’t the worst thing in the world. Just go really slow and back off when you are ready. I found best to practice when your parter isn’t incredibly horny, maybe on a second round so they aren’t completely hard and are better able to resist the urge to thrust.
It can and often does result in a sore throat after, kind of like when you are coming down with a cold. I quite like it as it’s a reminder of the dirty fun I had the night before.
I see, thank you. I’m getting the impression that it all boils down to how one feels about the gag reflex in general
I find if I start slow and keep it that way for a bit I can slowly increase how far I can take him. It depends on our position too