Fairly young guy here, I watch porn like 3-4 days a week and masturbate about as often and am fully able to finish then, however, with my partner I never finish and although it feels like I will sometimes I never do, and I can literally last forever. I’m very attracted to the person I’m with and the things they do feel good but I never seem to finish, what’s going on? Should I stop masturbating? Any help is wanted.
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Why do you need to finish in her. Lots of women find it icky. Why not get to the point where you’re going to finish and pull out. Then cum on her tits or pussy using your hand.
Cuming inside a pussy shouldn’t be the be all and end all.
Stop watching porn, stop jerking off for a bit.
It’s very easy to condition yourself to the point where you can only orgasm if you’re watching porn. You’re probably getting to that point.
Still jerk it if you want, but cut the porn.
Stop watching porn, it’s so unreal any way.
Stop masturbating too.
When having sex think about pleasing the girl don’t think about yourself cumming, it will happen naturally when ready.
No more porn. You’ve conditioned your brain to only be able to get off to that. Depending on how bad it’s gotten, you can expect some flatline of libido for awhile. It can take a few months. Most see an improvement within a month, sex will be way better and you’ll feel much more engaged.