Met this guy at a party a few months ago. He was very social, long story short. From a feral instinctual POV I didn’t like his smell. He always smelled like sweat and outside. Anyways we go to the movies and he’s touchy feels and doesn’t respect when I say NO. He had this like possessed look on his face, like a rabid animal when he was getting close to me. Long story short I cut him off. And he’s considered one of the nice guys but I could see his lack of respecting boundaries. I’m happy to stick with my gut because this guy creeped me all the way out.
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Stay away from that guy
“Nice guys finish last” is a saying because nice guys don’t exist.
He acts nice to get close and then he’s true colours showed.
You’ll learn to see when people are genuinely kind & caring vs acting nice to get in your pants.
A dude that can’t respect you is a definite no. Respect is the most basic quality a man should offer to you especially when it comes to touching.
As a guy, I can confidently say I’ve never acted this way towards a woman. He might be nice to other guys, or girls he’s not attracted to. Given that he’s “social” I’m sure that factors into his reputation.
Kind of weird that you gave him a chance in the first place though…??
He was not a nice guy. He was a creep.