So my (23f) boyfriend (21) has difficulty cumming from head. I love bjs, honestly it’s my favorite part of sex. I’m a really competitive person so I obviously take that as a challenge (consensually, of course, he’s said he’d like to see me try lol). He seems to enjoy it, but I guess it’s not enough stimulation? Not to brag or anything but my head game is usually fantastic and I make make a guy (or girl) come within 5-10 minutes, so I’m not really used to having to try this hard.
Part of the problem might be that I can’t fit it all in when he’s fully hard. It’s not that I gag and I have to stop, it’s more like it physically can’t go any further. I can get like 3/4ish of the way down before I feel like he’s reached the end of my throat. I do a lot of the basics: letting him push and throat fuck, intermittent jacking off, playing w his balls, that thing where I suck once he’s all the way down my throat, getting sloppy with it, eye contact, etc. I can normally go about 10 minutes before my jaw starts hurting like crazy and I have to stop. I just wanted to know if anyone has any extra tips on things I can do to increase his pleasure. Also, if any penis-owners who have/had difficulty with this too could provide some insight as to why you couldn’t come, or how you overcame that, that would be greatly appreciated too. I know I should ask him about it and I definitely will but I also want to try to surprise him with some new tricks 🙂
Also I would like to add that everything is always completely consensual. He doesn’t have to ask to push because I’ve told him that it’s okay and he can do it whenever. I wouldn’t do anything crazy different without asking him first, but I want to get some ideas of what I can do to pleasure my man 🙂
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How large is he? I am very thick so bj’s are not super pleasurable as i feel teeth which shuts me down quick. My wife has pretty much given up on bj’s as I am also not able to cum no matter how hard she tries.
A lot of the tricks and tips don’t really apply if you have small mouth and he has big d. Spice things up with some dirty talk and slap your face with it.
Lots of saliva. Mostly use your hand. Your thumb should focus on pressure on the frenulum. Suck on the head from time to time. That’s it. Enthusiasm of course
If he’s on the large side, as it sounds, I like it more when the lower half of the dick is getting a handjob while the upper half is getting sucked. This way the whole dick is being used and it’s much more pleasurable. Deep throat is great, but not a guaranteed way to get me to cum.
Look up perineum (area between his balls and ass) apply some pressure and make circle massage motion. Or if your both comfortable with it finger in his ass for a prostate massage. Either talk to him beforehand for this one or if you know he’d like it do it by surprise.